Christian
Dating Agencies
Are
dating Agencies for Christians a good idea?
Finding a Christian partner can seem a little like
finding a needle in a haystack. The question is, where
to look, who should I be looking for and should I even
be looking in the first place? Good question since if
God is really an all-knowing all-seeing God, then surely
he will produce the right person at the right time?
In a sense that has to be right doesn't it - it's rather
like Jesus either being God - ie who he said he was or
a crazy man! There isn't much room for speculation about
wether God knows where and when would be the best time
and place to meet for you to meet your future husband
or wife - the fact is He knows!:)
So what's the point of using Christian dating agencies
then?... well consider what would happen if you were to
sit at home for the rest of your life, not go out to parties
and Church events - the fact of the matter is you wouldn't
meet anyone of the opposite gender with whom you could
become friends with perhaps later partner up with. Extreme
as this is - this would be the outcome of not mixing and
matching socially, making new friends and generally getting
involved in church.
It is our oppinion that getting involved in church
IS the best way to meet other Christian singles but
what if you are always on the go and need a little help.
Well - your friends might invite you out for socials or
for dinner with their single friends to help out - a nice
gesture indeed. So then, what's the difference between
getting a little help from the chuch or your friends to
meet new people (it doesnt have to be romance!) and getting
a little help from a dedicated Christian run and Christian
owned dating site and friendship service that specialises
in making it easy to make new Christian Friends!??
There is NO difference. Yes there is the stigma of belonging
to a Christian singles agency or service but lets get
that out of the way - forget what other single Christians
think of you being proactive and making a bit of an effort
- God like people that do - not people that don't - the
old proverb about being easier to direct a ship thats
moving than one that stands still:)
Just one very important thing: You MUST not see a Christian
singles dating agency service as a way to short cut
God's plans. Use it to practice interacting, make new
friends and edify yourself with other Christians. Don't
use it to go on a string of dates to see which one 'fits!!
Stay open and listen to the quiet voice of God - see if
he is directing you in one way or another - to one person
or another - or - does he really just want you to make
good Christian friends?? I suspect God would want you
to make friends and have fun in fellowship with other
Christians.
Relax and don't expect any singles website or dating service
to shortcut God's plans for you finding your future Wife
or Husband - be sure though that along with church, your
social life, and possibly work, that by belonging to a
Christian dating agency you are putting yourself in a
good position to meet people should God decide to bring
you someone - not that he needs your help - I think the
emphasis should be on fellowship:)
Concentrate on sorting yourself out for your future partner
- read the Biblical view of how a Christian man or woman
looking for a spouse should be. This is the most important
preparation you will ever make so have fun doing it and
don't get too hot under the collar when things don't always
go your way - GOD KNOWS BEST!!!.
101 Team:)
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